I just finished reading Bonk: the Curious Coupling of Science and Sex, by Mary Roach, and really enjoyed it. It’s a delightful compilation of interesting facts about sex, and the science that has been done to study it, and is by far the most entertaining book I’ve read in a long time. Here’s just [...]
July 29, 2008
Categories: sex . Tags: book, review, sex . Author: whynotkay . Comments: Leave a Comment
… the continuing adventures of Pepper, Jen, Ari, and Debby with needles and beads.
In some ways my experience was easier then Debby’s and in some ways it was harder. After Debby had her “semi permanent piercings” in at Pride, we (Pep, Ari and I ) all decided that we wanted to do it for a [...]
July 23, 2008
Categories: BDSM . Tags: BDSM, loving the pain, needleplay, needles . Author: dangerkitten . Comments: Leave a Comment
… the adventures of Pepper, Jen, Ari, and Debby with needles and beads.
The day before Pride, Pepper and I (Debby) went to a “Genitorture with Needles” workshop, taught by Desiree. I had been hoping to learn a little more advanced needle technique (yes, I had previously participated in a birthday “crown of thorns” piercing, [...]
July 19, 2008
Categories: BDSM . Tags: BDSM, body stuff, needleplay, needles . Author: whynotkay . Comments: Leave a Comment
In May, a polyamorous woman named Jenny Block released a new hardcover book, Open: Love, Sex, and Life in an Open Marriage. I bought it and gave it a read in June, and this is my take on it.
Jenny has done something new and interesting with this book: instead of being the usual how-to guide [...]
July 17, 2008
Categories: polyamory . Tags: bisexuality, book, polyamory, review . Author: pepomint . Comments: 3 Comments
His name was Cami, and we met at a summer job. He seemed quite a bit younger than me but maybe it was only 2 years. He was small, about my height and weight – really small for a guy. I guess I had become his safe space, since he would come talk [...]
July 12, 2008
Categories: BDSM . Tags: BDSM, perversion makes you healthy, topping . Author: dangerkitten . Comments: Leave a Comment
A while ago, I attended a class on pain processing and catharsis, given by Lark and Keri. While listening to their presentation, it occurred to me that I get some of the same things out of climbing as I do BDSM… and if I’m doing much of one, I tend to do less of the [...]
July 8, 2008
Categories: BDSM . Tags: BDSM, body stuff, loving the pain, rock climbing . Author: whynotkay . Comments: 2 Comments
Some of you are asking, what the hell is an Epilady? It’s a small device that removes body hair by grabbing it and ripping it out. An Epilady has a rotating wheel, with little pieces on it that squeeze together and then pull. Hair gets caught in between and yanked out.
While there [...]
July 7, 2008
Categories: self-improvement . Tags: BDSM, body stuff, loving the pain . Author: pepomint . Comments: 11 Comments
“The doctor said it was hemorrhoids, and to get some Preparation H to put on it” I said when I got home from the doctor’s office.
“It’s because you’ve been having anal sex!” my fiancé accused.
The truth is up to that point I had never had anal sex, I had no interest in anal sex, I [...]
July 5, 2008
Categories: sex . Tags: anal sex, perversion makes you healthy, polyamory . Author: dangerkitten . Comments: 1 Comment
