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		<title>OkCupid Dating Tips</title>
		<link>http://poundcake.wordpress.com/2010/09/16/okcupid-dating-tips/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 16 Sep 2010 00:17:23 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>pepomint</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I got into a discussion on a poly list about how online dating services develop specific rituals, and if you deviate from these, it often means no dates. I wrote up the following advice list for poly men who are looking for poly women on OkCupid, which is the situation I am most familiar with. [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=poundcake.wordpress.com&amp;blog=3696157&amp;post=298&amp;subd=poundcake&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<link>http://poundcake.wordpress.com/2010/02/19/289/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 19 Feb 2010 03:55:03 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>dangerkitten</dc:creator>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://poundcake.wordpress.com/?p=289</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[What sex education? (a paper I wrote for a contemporary sexuality class possibility TMI) I did get a sex education – it just didn’t come from where it should have.  Aren’t parents and teachers supposed to teach you about relationships, contraception, and sex?  Mostly, I learned about sex the hard way, by trial and error.  [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=poundcake.wordpress.com&amp;blog=3696157&amp;post=289&amp;subd=poundcake&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>HPV: &#8220;We don&#8217;t know.&#8221;</title>
		<link>http://poundcake.wordpress.com/2009/10/08/hpv-we-dont-know/</link>
		<comments>http://poundcake.wordpress.com/2009/10/08/hpv-we-dont-know/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 08 Oct 2009 06:26:25 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>whynotkay</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[STI]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[body stuff]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[sex]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[STD]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://poundcake.wordpress.com/?p=284</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[The human papilloma virus (HPV) is the most common sexually transmitted infection, and there is a lot of information and misinformation about it floating around.  Recently, I had an illuminating discussion with a gynecologist who claimed to be up on the latest research, and her basic answer to a pile of interesting questions was, &#8220;we [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=poundcake.wordpress.com&amp;blog=3696157&amp;post=284&amp;subd=poundcake&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Non-Consensual Consent?</title>
		<link>http://poundcake.wordpress.com/2009/08/18/non-consensual-consent/</link>
		<comments>http://poundcake.wordpress.com/2009/08/18/non-consensual-consent/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 18 Aug 2009 07:59:46 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>whynotkay</dc:creator>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://poundcake.wordpress.com/?p=266</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[I recently saw the documentary Graphic Sexual Horror, and am still mulling it over.  The movie is a documentary covering the now defunct insex.com, an early and notorious internet bondage site that ran from 1997 to 2005.  The site exclusively featured female submission, with stills, videos, and live feeds, and had something like 35000 members [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=poundcake.wordpress.com&amp;blog=3696157&amp;post=266&amp;subd=poundcake&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Happy Pride!</title>
		<link>http://poundcake.wordpress.com/2009/07/07/happy-pride/</link>
		<comments>http://poundcake.wordpress.com/2009/07/07/happy-pride/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Jul 2009 06:35:14 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>whynotkay</dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[sutures]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://poundcake.wordpress.com/?p=249</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Last weekend was the 39th annual celebration and parade for San Francisco Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender Pride.  The celebration is enormous and overwhelming; despite my best efforts I only managed to participate in a small fraction of activities.  My week started out with a night out for drinks with several other queer grrls, followed a [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=poundcake.wordpress.com&amp;blog=3696157&amp;post=249&amp;subd=poundcake&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Jealousy Management</title>
		<link>http://poundcake.wordpress.com/2009/06/18/jealousy-management/</link>
		<comments>http://poundcake.wordpress.com/2009/06/18/jealousy-management/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 18 Jun 2009 14:56:49 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>whynotkay</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[self-improvement]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[jealousy]]></category>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://poundcake.wordpress.com/?p=232</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[I recently attended a workshop entitled &#8220;Making Friends with Jealousy&#8221; being taught by Dossie Easton at Poly Living West.  As usual, Dossie led an excellent workshop; even though a lot of the ground she was covering was material I already knew, it&#8217;s always good to get a new perspective on it, and to reexamine it [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=poundcake.wordpress.com&amp;blog=3696157&amp;post=232&amp;subd=poundcake&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Pain: She&#8217;s Gotta Have It</title>
		<link>http://poundcake.wordpress.com/2009/06/02/pain-shes-gotta-have-it/</link>
		<comments>http://poundcake.wordpress.com/2009/06/02/pain-shes-gotta-have-it/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 02 Jun 2009 01:07:59 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>whynotkay</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[BDSM]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[loving the pain]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://poundcake.wordpress.com/?p=213</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Sometimes I have a strong craving to be hurt, to receive pain.  It&#8217;s not an endorphin high I&#8217;m seeking, instead it&#8217;s an actual desire to feel an extreme sensation.  I am lucky to have sadistic lovers in my life, but what to do when they&#8217;re out of town or otherwise occupied? Needles are an obvious [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=poundcake.wordpress.com&amp;blog=3696157&amp;post=213&amp;subd=poundcake&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<slash:comments>2</slash:comments>
	
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		<title>Learning to Love the Singletail</title>
		<link>http://poundcake.wordpress.com/2009/04/29/learning-to-love-the-singletail/</link>
		<comments>http://poundcake.wordpress.com/2009/04/29/learning-to-love-the-singletail/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 29 Apr 2009 20:20:03 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>pepomint</dc:creator>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://poundcake.wordpress.com/?p=210</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[For those who do not know, the singletail is a particular type of whip, but at the same time the one we think of most often when people use the word &#8220;whip&#8221;. A singletail is the kind of whip Catwoman and Indiana Jones carry. In the BDSM world, anything with flexible tails is classified as [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=poundcake.wordpress.com&amp;blog=3696157&amp;post=210&amp;subd=poundcake&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Things I Didn&#8217;t Know About Pee</title>
		<link>http://poundcake.wordpress.com/2009/04/08/things-i-didnt-know-about-pee/</link>
		<comments>http://poundcake.wordpress.com/2009/04/08/things-i-didnt-know-about-pee/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 08 Apr 2009 05:57:29 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>whynotkay</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[kink]]></category>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://poundcake.wordpress.com/?p=195</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Piss play has never much interested me. Urine doesn&#8217;t disgust me, which would potentially provide a fertile ground for exploration, but it also doesn&#8217;t attract me in any way, so I paid little attention to this whole area of the kink universe for a very long time. Then one day I met a sexy dom [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=poundcake.wordpress.com&amp;blog=3696157&amp;post=195&amp;subd=poundcake&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>&#8220;Waiter, pardon me&#8230;&#8221;</title>
		<link>http://poundcake.wordpress.com/2009/04/01/waiter-pardon-me/</link>
		<comments>http://poundcake.wordpress.com/2009/04/01/waiter-pardon-me/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 01 Apr 2009 06:20:04 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>whynotkay</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[kink]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[anal sex]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[tasty treats]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://poundcake.wordpress.com/?p=164</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[&#8220;&#8230; but I think there&#8217;s some food in my ass.&#8221; Last week, I happened to attend a class at IMSL taught by cru, entitled &#8220;Up Yours, Asshole&#8221;. As we entered the room, we noticed a table laid out with quite a variety of items.  The first few, including a couple of pre-carved pieces of ginger, [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=poundcake.wordpress.com&amp;blog=3696157&amp;post=164&amp;subd=poundcake&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Figging for Fun?</title>
		<link>http://poundcake.wordpress.com/2009/03/20/figging-for-fun/</link>
		<comments>http://poundcake.wordpress.com/2009/03/20/figging-for-fun/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 20 Mar 2009 04:57:03 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>whynotkay</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[BDSM]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[anal sex]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[review]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://poundcake.wordpress.com/?p=144</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Last week, I was figged. Figging, oddly enough, does not involve figs.  Instead, it describes the action of taking ginger and inserting it into an ass (or possibly a vagina).  It is supposed to cause a burning sensation, and if you believe the, er, literature, to also cause an increase in what are euphemistically referred [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=poundcake.wordpress.com&amp;blog=3696157&amp;post=144&amp;subd=poundcake&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>We Did *What* Last Night?  Consensual Date Rape</title>
		<link>http://poundcake.wordpress.com/2009/03/11/we-did-what-last-night-consensual-date-rape/</link>
		<comments>http://poundcake.wordpress.com/2009/03/11/we-did-what-last-night-consensual-date-rape/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 11 Mar 2009 06:27:53 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>whynotkay</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[kink]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://poundcake.wordpress.com/?p=132</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Recently I heard about a kink that I hadn&#8217;t heard of before, involving ambien, a sleep aid drug. Ambien makes people sleepy. However, when taken in larger than prescribed quantities, or when combined with alcohol, it seems to have other effects. The manufacturer&#8217;s website states: Complex behaviors such as &#8220;sleep-driving&#8221; (i.e., driving while not fully [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=poundcake.wordpress.com&amp;blog=3696157&amp;post=132&amp;subd=poundcake&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Blood: It&#8217;s what&#8217;s for dinner</title>
		<link>http://poundcake.wordpress.com/2009/02/26/blood-its-whats-for-dinner/</link>
		<comments>http://poundcake.wordpress.com/2009/02/26/blood-its-whats-for-dinner/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 26 Feb 2009 15:37:37 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>whynotkay</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[blood play]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[tasty treats]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://poundcake.wordpress.com/?p=109</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Posted in Uncategorized Tagged: blood play, tasty treats<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=poundcake.wordpress.com&amp;blog=3696157&amp;post=109&amp;subd=poundcake&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Pop! Goes the Bottom</title>
		<link>http://poundcake.wordpress.com/2009/02/19/pop-goes-the-bottom/</link>
		<comments>http://poundcake.wordpress.com/2009/02/19/pop-goes-the-bottom/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 19 Feb 2009 06:46:24 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>whynotkay</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[BDSM]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://poundcake.wordpress.com/?p=104</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[The first piercing that I ever had was late at night, at the SF Citadel, from a couple that I had not played with before.  After what I remember as a very fun caning (my first), they decided to try needles on me as well.  I had not seen the attraction of needles prior to [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=poundcake.wordpress.com&amp;blog=3696157&amp;post=104&amp;subd=poundcake&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Pressure Point Orgasm?</title>
		<link>http://poundcake.wordpress.com/2008/12/19/pressure-point-orgasm/</link>
		<comments>http://poundcake.wordpress.com/2008/12/19/pressure-point-orgasm/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 19 Dec 2008 07:34:15 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>whynotkay</dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[mind games]]></category>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://poundcake.wordpress.com/?p=99</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[I attended Lady Thorn&#8217;s Fetish Flea Market last weekend, where numerous vendors had products old and new up for sale. One of the vendors was there, as he often is, with a selection of necklaces, arm bands, and claws, all of which he makes by working metal in interesting patterns; I will call him Thomas. [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=poundcake.wordpress.com&amp;blog=3696157&amp;post=99&amp;subd=poundcake&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Tits and Marks</title>
		<link>http://poundcake.wordpress.com/2008/11/08/tits-and-marks/</link>
		<comments>http://poundcake.wordpress.com/2008/11/08/tits-and-marks/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sat, 08 Nov 2008 00:33:48 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>whynotkay</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[BDSM]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[bruises]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[marks]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[needleplay]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[needles]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://poundcake.wordpress.com/?p=90</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Marks left after a scene are often a delightful reminder of a special time.  Sometimes they happen to look really cool too.  And sometimes, after playing with far too many partners in far too short of a time, well, you can see the results.  But hey, it was my birthday month! As I recover from [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=poundcake.wordpress.com&amp;blog=3696157&amp;post=90&amp;subd=poundcake&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Journeyman Academy Graduation</title>
		<link>http://poundcake.wordpress.com/2008/10/28/journeyman-academy-graduation/</link>
		<comments>http://poundcake.wordpress.com/2008/10/28/journeyman-academy-graduation/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 28 Oct 2008 06:00:59 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>whynotkay</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[BDSM]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[community]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://poundcake.wordpress.com/?p=82</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[On Sunday, I attended the the graduation of the cadets of the 2008 Journeyman III Academy of California, held at the San Francisco Citadel (the local dungeon).  From what I can tell as an outsider, the academy is a pretty amazing institution, and graduation from it is a big deal.  The audience that showed up [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=poundcake.wordpress.com&amp;blog=3696157&amp;post=82&amp;subd=poundcake&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Say What?</title>
		<link>http://poundcake.wordpress.com/2008/10/24/say-what/</link>
		<comments>http://poundcake.wordpress.com/2008/10/24/say-what/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 24 Oct 2008 23:18:46 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>whynotkay</dc:creator>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://poundcake.wordpress.com/?p=80</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Ever had one of those &#8220;did I just hear that?&#8221; situations?  One afternoon, a vanilla friend of mine and I were discussing our respective plans for the following evening.  He said, &#8220;I&#8217;m headed up to the city for a suspension clinic.&#8221;   My mind immediately started racing in all different directions (&#8220;Did I mishear him?&#8221;  &#8220;Did [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=poundcake.wordpress.com&amp;blog=3696157&amp;post=80&amp;subd=poundcake&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>How to Break a Poly Date</title>
		<link>http://poundcake.wordpress.com/2008/10/08/how-to-break-a-poly-date/</link>
		<comments>http://poundcake.wordpress.com/2008/10/08/how-to-break-a-poly-date/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 08 Oct 2008 04:56:35 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>pepomint</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[polyamory]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[dating]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://poundcake.wordpress.com/?p=74</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[This summer, I had to break a date with one person I&#8217;m seeing in order to accommodate another.  Here&#8217;s the email I sent her: Hey sweetie, So, now that we&#8217;ve figured out a July date and everything &#8230; it would be cool if we could reschedule. Sorry. Renee&#8217;s gone for a month, in town for [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=poundcake.wordpress.com&amp;blog=3696157&amp;post=74&amp;subd=poundcake&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Blood, blood, everywhere&#8230;</title>
		<link>http://poundcake.wordpress.com/2008/10/07/blood-blood-everywhere/</link>
		<comments>http://poundcake.wordpress.com/2008/10/07/blood-blood-everywhere/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Oct 2008 07:12:13 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>whynotkay</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[BDSM]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[blood play]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[dungeon]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[needles]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[sex]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://poundcake.wordpress.com/?p=63</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Last week I was lucky enough to be invited to a special taping of blood-related kinky activities for Dave Navarro, for his upcoming show on the Independent Film Channel. Phil and August of the San Francisco Citadel had arranged for a variety of scenes to be performed in his presence, and since the shoot was [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=poundcake.wordpress.com&amp;blog=3696157&amp;post=63&amp;subd=poundcake&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Folsom Fair Friends</title>
		<link>http://poundcake.wordpress.com/2008/10/03/folsom-fair-friends/</link>
		<comments>http://poundcake.wordpress.com/2008/10/03/folsom-fair-friends/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Oct 2008 05:09:25 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>whynotkay</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[BDSM]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[community]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://poundcake.wordpress.com/?p=59</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Folsom Street Fair, the high holy day for pervs, leatherfolk, kinksters, whatever we&#8217;re called. Everyone in town (and most try to be in town) drags themselves to the fair, no matter how they&#8217;re feeling that day. Excited, tired, sick, or healthy, it&#8217;s a chance to see and be seen, to show one&#8217;s leather pride, to [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=poundcake.wordpress.com&amp;blog=3696157&amp;post=59&amp;subd=poundcake&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Fourteen dates in 84 minutes</title>
		<link>http://poundcake.wordpress.com/2008/09/11/fourteen-dates-in-84-minutes/</link>
		<comments>http://poundcake.wordpress.com/2008/09/11/fourteen-dates-in-84-minutes/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 11 Sep 2008 15:45:57 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>whynotkay</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[polyamory]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[dating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[review]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://poundcake.wordpress.com/?p=54</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[A few nights ago, I attended Poly Speed Dating, an event put on by a few hot local organizing types, some of whom also post on this blog. The event format was, I expect, typical for speed dating events. After registration, and a discussion of how the process was going to work, schedules were distributed [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=poundcake.wordpress.com&amp;blog=3696157&amp;post=54&amp;subd=poundcake&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Vampires Like Oral</title>
		<link>http://poundcake.wordpress.com/2008/08/22/vampires-like-oral/</link>
		<comments>http://poundcake.wordpress.com/2008/08/22/vampires-like-oral/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 22 Aug 2008 16:00:51 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>pepomint</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[BDSM]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[blood play]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[vampires]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://poundcake.wordpress.com/?p=52</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Last night I dreamt I was having sex with Dracula. I was bottoming, of course. Also, he was into blood play. No surprises there. I was there because I was ambitious &#8211; I wanted a piece of Dracula&#8217;s fame and wealth. I was doing sex work, I guess. Strangely, his wealth only translated into a [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=poundcake.wordpress.com&amp;blog=3696157&amp;post=52&amp;subd=poundcake&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<slash:comments>2</slash:comments>
	
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		<title>Downstairs</title>
		<link>http://poundcake.wordpress.com/2008/08/08/downstairs/</link>
		<comments>http://poundcake.wordpress.com/2008/08/08/downstairs/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 08 Aug 2008 18:32:32 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>pepomint</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[BDSM]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[bottoming]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[dungeon]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[loving the pain]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://poundcake.wordpress.com/?p=50</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[We breeze into the local dungeon on a Friday night, lugging backpacks and toy bags. We take a moment by the lockers to change into revealing black clothes. We&#8217;re late &#8211; the dungeon closes at one, which is only a couple hours away. It&#8217;s a slow night, and most of the other folks there probably [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=poundcake.wordpress.com&amp;blog=3696157&amp;post=50&amp;subd=poundcake&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Dildo Specifications</title>
		<link>http://poundcake.wordpress.com/2008/08/07/dildo-specifications/</link>
		<comments>http://poundcake.wordpress.com/2008/08/07/dildo-specifications/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 07 Aug 2008 16:08:06 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>whynotkay</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[sex]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[anal sex]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[toys]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://poundcake.wordpress.com/?p=47</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[&#8220;Fatty&#8220;, made by Square Peg. 6&#8243; tall, head 5.5&#8243; circumference, near base 8&#8243; circumference. &#8220;Great, smaller toy with a bit of a stretch in it. Beginner.&#8221; Beginner?!??<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=poundcake.wordpress.com&amp;blog=3696157&amp;post=47&amp;subd=poundcake&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Swingtown</title>
		<link>http://poundcake.wordpress.com/2008/08/05/swingtown/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 05 Aug 2008 21:23:42 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>pepomint</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[CBS has a new television series out, Swingtown. It is billed as a show about swingers set in 1976, but it is really more about relationships and marriage in the 70&#8242;s, with a strong emphasis on open relationships. It started in June, and is running the first thirteen episodes this summer, ten so far. In [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=poundcake.wordpress.com&amp;blog=3696157&amp;post=44&amp;subd=poundcake&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Feeding the Ducks</title>
		<link>http://poundcake.wordpress.com/2008/07/29/feeding-the-ducks/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 29 Jul 2008 00:11:40 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>whynotkay</dc:creator>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://poundcake.wordpress.com/?p=40</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[I just finished reading Bonk: the Curious Coupling of Science and Sex, by Mary Roach, and really enjoyed it. It&#8217;s a delightful compilation of interesting facts about sex, and the science that has been done to study it, and is by far the most entertaining book I&#8217;ve read in a long time.  Here&#8217;s just one [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=poundcake.wordpress.com&amp;blog=3696157&amp;post=40&amp;subd=poundcake&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Beadings All Around II&#8230;</title>
		<link>http://poundcake.wordpress.com/2008/07/23/beadings-all-around-ii/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 23 Jul 2008 03:54:36 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>dangerkitten</dc:creator>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://poundcake.wordpress.com/?p=32</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[&#8230; the continuing adventures of Pepper, Jen, Ari, and Debby with needles and beads. In some ways my experience was easier then Debby’s and in some ways it was harder. After Debby had her “semi permanent piercings” in at Pride, we (Pep, Ari and I ) all decided that we wanted to do it for [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=poundcake.wordpress.com&amp;blog=3696157&amp;post=32&amp;subd=poundcake&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Beadings All Around&#8230;</title>
		<link>http://poundcake.wordpress.com/2008/07/19/beadings-all-around/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 19 Jul 2008 04:46:42 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>whynotkay</dc:creator>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://poundcake.wordpress.com/?p=26</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[&#8230; the adventures of Pepper, Jen, Ari, and Debby with needles and beads. The day before Pride, Pepper and I (Debby) went to a &#8220;Genitorture with Needles&#8221; workshop, taught by Desiree. I had been hoping to learn a little more advanced needle technique (yes, I had previously participated in a birthday &#8220;crown of thorns&#8221; piercing, [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=poundcake.wordpress.com&amp;blog=3696157&amp;post=26&amp;subd=poundcake&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Book Review: Jenny Block&#8217;s Open</title>
		<link>http://poundcake.wordpress.com/2008/07/17/book-review-jenny-blocks-open/</link>
		<comments>http://poundcake.wordpress.com/2008/07/17/book-review-jenny-blocks-open/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 17 Jul 2008 21:44:08 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>pepomint</dc:creator>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://poundcake.wordpress.com/?p=20</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[In May, a polyamorous woman named Jenny Block released a new hardcover book, Open: Love, Sex, and Life in an Open Marriage. I bought it and gave it a read in June, and this is my take on it. Jenny has done something new and interesting with this book: instead of being the usual how-to [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=poundcake.wordpress.com&amp;blog=3696157&amp;post=20&amp;subd=poundcake&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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