OkCupid Dating Tips

I got into a discussion on a poly list about how online dating services develop specific rituals, and if you deviate from these, it often means no dates. I wrote up the following advice list for poly men who are looking for poly women on OkCupid, which is the situation I am most familiar with.

Your mileage may vary, and probably does. I would love to hear about what works differently for you, especially if you are in a different gender search arrangement.

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