A while ago, I attended a class on pain processing and catharsis, given by Lark and Keri. While listening to their presentation, it occurred to me that I get some of the same things out of climbing as I do BDSM… and if I’m doing much of one, I tend to do less of the other.
One common theme is that of overcoming the body and the mind. For example, in the class, Lark talked about strategies a bottom could use to prevent fainting (the idea being that the bottom didn’t want the scene to stop, and most tops would stop if the bottom fainted). These were physical techniques (such as trying to feel your feet on the floor, keeping your eyes open, focusing on a single spot to prevent tunnel vision from closing down your vision entirely). I don’t see an exact analog to climbing here, although paying careful attention to what you’re doing with your body while climbing is totally necessary (e.g. making sure not to overgrip holds, “resting” while in strenuous positions by deliberately switching your weight from one limb to another, etc). Of course, processing pain differently than in regular life is important to both BDSM and climbing. The techniques they taught for scening were interesting, but not relevant to climbing. In climbing, one more often just wants to ignore pain, and continue on, hopefully to a position one can rest in.
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July 8, 2008
Categories: BDSM . Tags: BDSM, body stuff, loving the pain, rock climbing . Author: whynotkay . Comments: 2 Comments
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